Forgiveness is often framed as this final, noble act.

But forgiveness is messy. It’s layered.

Sometimes we forgive too soon. Sometimes we can’t.

Sometimes we’re waiting for an apology that never came or carrying guilt that we don’t know what to do with.

This MyStories session we explore what forgiveness is. It’s not about getting it ‘right.’ It’s just about meeting ourselves, and each other, honestly, wherever we are in the process.

What are we reflecting on?

Who or what is hardest to forgive, and why?

What does forgiveness not mean to you?

When did you mistake forgetting for forgiving?

Is there a version of yourself you’re still working to forgive?

Do you think forgiveness requires closure or contact?

What is MyStories?

MyStories are community gatherings where we sit down and gently talk about life. These are informal gatherings. Some will be facilitated by a mental health professional. Some not. But the objective is one: Can we speak? Can we have a conversation with each other? Can strangers meet and part as friends?

Meet the host

This session is hosted by our co-founder and writer, Smitha Murthy. Smitha is the author of Worlds Apart, a memoir, and runs MyndStories with her old friend and foe, Swati Nair. One day, she dreams of a world where we build bridges through kindness and where mental health has no stigma.

What should you bring?

An item you would like to speak about that holds special meaning for you. It can be anything that you hold close. Reminisce, recollect, retell. We want to hear you speak about the memory closest to your heart.

What this session is not

• A dating session
• A networking meet-up
• Startup something or the other

This is a listen-and-learn-and-connect session. 

The session does not include food and drinks. Any food or drinks can be bought from the cafe at the venue and will be paid for individually.